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\"Meszaros\"<\/a>Nagyon szerencs\u00e9s gyereknek sz\u00fclettem. Vannak gyerekek, akik apa n\u00e9lk\u00fcl n\u0151nek fel. Vannak gyerekek, akiknek apjuk goromb\u00e1n b\u00e1nt vel\u00fck, vagy k\u00e1ros szenved\u00e9lyek miatt gyerekeiket elhanyagolt\u00e1k, vagy rossz term\u00e9szet\u00fckkel \u00fagy megb\u00e1ntott\u00e1k gyermekeiket, hogy eg\u00e9sz \u00e9let\u00fckre kihatott.<\/p>\n

\u00c9n m\u00e1r 8 vagy 9 \u00e9ves koromban, a h\u00e1ts\u00f3 kertben j\u00e1t\u00e9k k\u00f6zben, r\u00e1eszm\u00e9ltem, \u00e9s nem tudom hogyan is t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt, hogy \u00e9desap\u00e1m engem bizony nagyon szeret. Ez a tudat sosem hagyott el engem \u00e9s \u00e9letemnek vigaszt \u00e9s biztons\u00e1got adott.<\/p>\n

Mint nagyon sok emigr\u00e1ns f\u00e9rfi, aki a II. Vil\u00e1g H\u00e1bor\u00faban haz\u00e1j\u00e1t k\u00e9nytelen volt elhagyni, \u00c9desap\u00e1m sok vesztes\u00e9get szenvedett. Haz\u00e1j\u00e1t elvesztette, \u00fagy szint\u00e9n r\u00e9gi bar\u00e1tait, \u00e9s a meg\u00e9lhet\u00e9s\u00e9t. Csal\u00e1dj\u00e1t, amiben nevelkedett, ott kellett hagynia; az a vil\u00e1g, amit ismert \u00e9s szeretett, megsz\u0171nt.<\/p>\n

Tudom, hogy ezek a vesztes\u00e9gek nagyon b\u00e1ntott\u00e1k. De sosem hallottam t\u0151le panaszt. A helyet, arra tan\u00edtott meg minket, hogy nem arra kell hangs\u00falyt fektetni, hogy mi t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik vel\u00fcnk, hanem arra, hogy hogyan fogunk az esem\u00e9nyekre reag\u00e1lni- azaz, hogy milyen ember lesz bel\u0151l\u00fcnk. Megmutatta azt is, hogy lehets\u00e9ges valakinek sok mindent elveszteni, sok \u00e1ldozatot hozni, \u00e9s m\u00e9gis tal\u00e1lni boldogs\u00e1got az \u00e9letben.<\/p>\n

\u00c9desap\u00e1m egy h\u00edv\u0151 ember volt, ez adott neki lelki er\u0151t. P\u00e9ld\u00e1ja n\u0151v\u00e9remet \u00e9s engemet arra buzd\u00edtott, hogy olyanok legy\u00fcnk, mint \u0150 volt.<\/p>\n

\u00c9desap\u00e1m t\u00fcrelmes volt, meggondoltan \u00e9s m\u00e9rs\u00e9kelten v\u00e1laszolt \u2013 ezeket a jellem – von\u00e1sokat tan\u00edtotta nek\u00fcnk. Becs\u00fclet \u00e9s tisztess\u00e9gtud\u00e1s r\u00e9sze volt term\u00e9szet\u00e9nek. A \u201ebecs\u00fclet\u201d sz\u00f3t sokszor haszn\u00e1lta, amikor egy\u00fctt elbesz\u00e9lgett\u00fcnk- sosem fellejtettem el.<\/p>\n

Szeretettel b\u00e1tor\u00edtott minket, kritik\u00e1ja mindig gyeng\u00e9d volt, megadta nek\u00fcnk azt a lehet\u0151s\u00e9get, hogy saj\u00e1t utunkon j\u00e1rjunk.\u00a0 Megtan\u00edtott minket arra, hogy \u00e9rt\u00e9kelj\u00fck az iskol\u00e1z\u00e1st. K\u00f6z\u00e9piskola \u00e9veimben a vend\u00e9gl\u0151j\u00e9ben seg\u00edtett\u00fcnk neki dolgozni \u00e9s csod\u00e1ltuk, hogy milyen nehezen tudott dolgozni \u2013 ez is egy p\u00e9ld\u00e1s lecke volt nek\u00fcnk.<\/p>\n

Bizony \u00e9n egy szerencs\u00e9s gyerek vagyok- most is pr\u00f3b\u00e1lom \u00c9desap\u00e1mnak p\u00e9ld\u00e1j\u00e1t \u00e9s kiemelked\u0151 tulajdons\u00e1gait k\u00f6vetni. Rem\u00e9nyem az, hogy gyermekeimnek is \u00e1tadtam az \u0150 p\u00e9ld\u00e1j\u00e1t \u00e9s, hogy \u0151k is a k\u00f6vet\u0151 gener\u00e1ci\u00f3knak tov\u00e1bb adj\u00e1k.<\/p>\n

M\u00e9sz\u00e1ros Elem\u00e9r<\/strong>
\nEME ellen\u0151r<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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